Conflicts between parents and children

In every family there are conflicts between parents and children. In some families, despite the difficulties, supported by a rather peaceful life. In other families, children and parents are constantly soryatsya for various little things. Why are there conflicts with the children?

Types of family conflicts
The children are brought up with their parents. And do not assume that the child is older, more likely to quarrel. Conflicts between parents begin with children of all ages.

Conflict custody
Such a conflict occurs in families where the parents watch very closely over the child. The parents with their very young years experience that the child does not go for a walk alone, is harassed, not cold outside, so the child ate his porridge. And it can in many situations. Of course, parental care is good. But this leads to the custody of the child growing out of the limp creature, it will have no opinion, because for him all parents do.

In school, their problems arise
The child will not take the initiative. As a teenager, he realizes that he inhibits parental care, the child in the family will suffer. There is nothing worse for him than with my parents under one roof. But, living independently, he cannot, as it turned out, is completely unprepared for an independent life. Such conflicts occur in families where parents try to maintain emotional intimacy with their daughter or son.

Neutral zone
Conflicts with the children in families where the parents give their children to do whatever he wants. They do not fit into their problems and try to protect themselves from the child’s personal life. Such an attitude towards the child, also, leads to conflict. Modern parents try to instill in the children, giving freedom and independence to choose. The result is that if there is a problem in the Family and need the participation of every member of the family, the child does not participate. Parents you never interested in the child’s life, his experiences, life’s problems.

Several children
Conflicts with the children arise then, when the older child feels deprived of parental care and attention, it seems that most of the love gets younger sister and brother. Problems of Children and their parents can be serious. Youngest child is unhappy, he will continue wearing older brothers’ clothes. Such situations are often observed in large families where finances are not allowed to have the latest and greatest. Conflicts within the family will take a very long time. It ends when the youngest child becomes a teenager. In such families need to listen to the grievances of all children and be patient.

Parents dictators
In these families the parents think that the best way to monitor their children is by dictatorship. You can get complete control over all family members. In these families, parents prohibit children from doing anything without permission. Already at puberty, transform your child into cynical, ruffian and despot. To avoid this, you have to give the child the right to choose the music so that what he wants to choose friends with whom he will communicate and carry things he would like.

Family conflicts can be resolved when the parents realize that they were wrong. Check your training methods, do not stand aside, not be a dictator, expose children to special care. The best education is a partnership. Children take care of their worries and joys. Share with them all the pent up. And then you will see that conflict with the children will go to the distant past.

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