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A very interesting book!

Cover: An empty net is shown here simply and appropriately. Suitable because it reflects the topic and super and aptly includes the content. Writing style: Pleasant, which surprised me a lot. There are also some technical terms that have left me with a few question marks, but it worked and the content could still be understood. Opinion: I am pleasantly surprised. I found the book very interesting and instructive, because it provided some enlightenment for me and brought moments of awe. I also found the examples given to be very well chosen from everyday life. SO you could identify with it much better and project it onto yourself. I have deeply internalized the teaching of the shadow and sun child for myself and am trying to deal with it more consciously. In some places, however, the book became too much for me. I noticed how I couldn’t really record the content anymore because it was too deep-psychological and I couldn’t quite grasp some of it. But all in all a very informative and interesting book from which I could take a few things. Conclusion: I think I will soon try other books by the author.

Christina Cherry

The child in you must find a home

The key to solving (almost) all problems

The content of this book is a problem-solving structure that I developed, with the help of which everyone can solve their individual problems. This applies to all problems that have their own responsibility and this includes all psychological problems and relationship crises.

In the first step, I work with the readers to develop their so-called shadow child. This stands symbolically for all negative childhood impressions, which we take into our adult life in the form of – mostly unconscious – thought patterns and behavioral programs. Even if our problems, especially our relationship problems, appear superficially confused and complicated, they can be reduced to simple, unconscious beliefs in a deeper analysis. So many people are deeply convinced: I am not enough! I’m not worth anything! You can’t love me, etc. These beliefs control our behavior, which manifests itself in so-called self-protection strategies. So in order to compensate for our supposed worthlessness, we strive for perfection, avoid or provoke conflicts, flee to work, wall us in, wear a mask and so on. The beliefs in combination of negative feelings and the resulting self-protection strategies are the cause of (almost) all problems that we have in life – except for strokes of fate.

Christina Cherry