How to Travel with an Elderly Loved One

Travelling in your old age has only grown in numbers as people are staying healthier longer, and the world has become more accessible. Last month, we gave you 7 tips for seniors who want to travel , but what about friends or family who want to go with their older loved ones? We’ll share what you need to know about travelling with someone elderly.

Have a Conversation

Get together a few times with your elderly loved one to discuss where you would like to travel and what you plan on doing while you’re there. Often, when travelling with elderly people, you won’t be able to “wing it” as much as a group of your peers might.

You’ll also want to discuss costs upfront. Who will pay for what and when? Your loved one may not even know how much tours and attractions cost, so it may be best to get things out in the open and discuss all the costs before you start booking.

Do Your Research

After you have a clear plan of what you both want to do, you’ll need to do your research. Figure out the best way to travel there, where to stay, and how to access the attractions based on the mobility issues of your loved one. Make sure there are ramps and accessible washrooms wherever you plan to go if mobility is an issue. Sometimes, even big airlines and hotels aren’t as accessible as you may need — make sure you check it all out in advance.

You may be eligible for early boarding or special rooms if someone in your party is a senior and/or disabled. But you likely won’t know unless you ask.

You’ll also want to research the details of where you’re going to travel to give you a realistic expectation of what you’re going to be able to see. For example, you can’t expect to do all of Disneyland park in a single day with your mother, who uses a walker and needs frequent rest breaks. Be realistic about what you plan to see, and make sure you give yourself enough time to see it.

Keep a List of Their Medications

Your loved one should have a list of their medications and a system in place for when they need to remember to take each dose. Have a list of your own so you can give a gentle reminder. A list can also be handy for you in case of any medical emergencies.

Be Patient

Your loved one wants to have a good time as much as you do. If they’re moving slower than you would like or need time to rest, don’t get discouraged. Hurrying them will likely only lead to more health issues and possible arguments.

And don’t forget to allow yourself extra time to get to airports, shuttle pickups, and tours, which start at a particular time. You may be able to get down to the lobby in three minutes, but your Aunt Irma in a wheelchair will likely need seven minutes.

Give Everyone Time to Rest

Chances are your loved one will need some time to rest, so be careful not to book too much into each day. And if you must offer them care as well as companionship on this trip, make sure you schedule some time in to rest yourself! You certainly don’t want to burn out and be unable to enjoy your trip.

Have Fun!

The most important thing you can do on a trip with your loved one is to have fun and make some fantastic memories! Be prepared before you leave, and just relax and enjoy.

Know Trillium Communities Is Here to Help

If you ever need to travel and you just can’t take your loved one with you, remember that Trillium Communities offers respite care . We can provide your loved one with a safe place and any care they need while you’re gone. Contact us today for more information.